What Is True Love? – Beyond Mindset to Cosmic Synergy 🌌💖
Every person at some point in life asks themselves…
🌱 “Why do we love someone? What is love really?”
Is it just a feeling? A mindset? Or something far deeper?
Most of us grow up thinking love is something we feel in our heart ❤️ –
a personal emotion that happens because someone makes us happy, looks beautiful, or fulfills our desires.
We believe that love is about “I like you,” “I want you,” or “I miss you.”
This is what I call the “mindset perception of being-self individual existence (Self-Me)”.
But… What if this view of love is incomplete?
What if love is not just about “what I feel” but about something much bigger and more profound?
Let me explain this in a simple way 🌼.
🌊 The Mindset Perception of Love – The Common Illusion.
Imagine love as a small candle 🕯️.
When you focus only on your own Self-Me –
your thoughts, your feelings, your past experiences – the candle’s light flickers.
It burns… but it is weak, unstable, and dependent on external conditions.
👉 Example:
“I love you because you make me smile.”
“I love you because you are always there for me.”
“I love you because I feel happy when I’m with you.”
This type of love is conditional.
It depends on how the other person behaves, what they give us, and how they make us feel.
If the other person changes, leaves, or disappoints us, the candle dims, or sometimes even extinguishes 🕯️💔.
This is why many people suffer in love.
They love from the limited perspective of their own individual existence (Self-Me), which is full of desires, expectations, and ego.
🌟 The Cosmic Reality of Love – A Synergy of Life-Is and Self-Me.
But what if love is not just about “I feel,” but about “Life flowing through me”?
🌿 In the deeper view of Chetasyog, love is the synergy between Being-Life Cosmic Consciousness (Life-Is) and Being-Self Individual Existence (Self-Me).
Let me break it down:
Life-Is (Being-Life Cosmic Consciousness) is the infinite intelligence of existence.
It is the cosmic flow, the universal awareness, the ‘IS-ness’ of life itself 🌌.
Self-Me (Being-Self Individual Existence) is my unique personal experience of being – my body, personality, emotions, and individual sense of self.
✨ True love happens when the small individual self (Self-Me) does not try to control, grasp, or demand,
but instead harmonizes with the infinite cosmic flow of Life-Is.
🌸 Analogy – The River and the Tributary.
Think of a large river 🌊 and a small tributary (a small stream) 🌱.
When the tributary flows naturally into the river,
without any resistance or force,
the two merge in perfect harmony.
👉 That’s what love really is –
when your individual existence (Self-Me) flows into the cosmic existence (Life-Is).
It’s not about taking or demanding love,
but about allowing love to flow through you effortlessly, like water.
In this state, love becomes pure, unconditional, and eternal.
It is no longer dependent on the person, the situation, or the mood.
It just is… because Life itself is love 💞.
🌼 Love as Presence – The Awakening of Life in You.
When you love from the synergy of Life-Is and Self-Me, love becomes presence 🌟.
It is not just about “I feel love for you,”
but “I am love itself flowing through me.”
👉 Example:
Instead of thinking “I love my partner because they make me happy,”
you start to experience…
“I am present with them. I see their existence as part of the cosmic flow of Life.
I feel their happiness, their pain, their presence as the Life expressing itself.”
This love is no longer limited by conditions.
It does not get disturbed when the other person doesn’t reciprocate.
It does not fluctuate with moods or life’s ups and downs.
🌺 It is a deep recognition that we are not separate.
Life flows in me, and in you, and in everyone.
🌈 The Freedom in True Love.
Many people feel trapped in the mindset perception of love because they try to possess or hold onto the other person.
This creates suffering and insecurity.
But love as cosmic synergy is freedom 🕊️.
It is the liberation from ego-centered needs and attachments.
When you realize that love flows from Life-Is through your Self-Me,
you no longer need to grasp, control, or expect.
Instead, you simply become a channel of love.
You allow love to flow…
without effort…
without asking why…
just as the river flows to the ocean 🌊.
👉 Beautiful Thought 🌼:
Love is not about “me and you.”
It’s about “us as Life flowing through existence.”
🌟 Real-Life Example – Mother’s Love.
Think about a mother’s love for her child 🤱.
A mother does not love her child because of conditions like appearance, success, or behavior.
Her love flows naturally – unconditional and pure.
Why?
Because her love comes from the deep synergy between Life-Is (the universal cosmic energy) and her Self-Me (her individual expression of being a mother).
🌷 Her love is not about expectations or personal gain.
It is about being present, giving, and allowing life to express itself through care, compassion, and nurturing.
🌿 How To Experience This Love?
1️⃣ Be Present 🌸
Stop thinking too much about “why I love” or “why I don’t love.”
Just be present in the moment.
Feel life itself flowing through you.
2️⃣ Let Go of Expectations 🌬️
Love doesn’t ask for a return.
It flows effortlessly, without demanding anything in return.
3️⃣ See Others as Life Itself 🌍
When you see other people as expressions of Life-Is,
you stop separating yourself from them.
They are not “other” – they are part of you, part of the same cosmic existence.
4️⃣ Meditate and Observe 🧘
Practice mindful awareness to feel the synergy between your Self-Me and Life-Is.
Observe how life flows in your breath, your heartbeat, and your emotions.
🌟 Conclusion – Love Is the Cosmic Dance.
💫 Real love is not just a personal emotion or mindset.
It is the beautiful synergy between the infinite Life-Is and the individual Self-Me.
When you live in this awareness, love becomes eternal, unconditional, and liberating 🌷.
It flows effortlessly, just like a river joining the ocean 🌊.
So stop asking “Why do I love?” and start living the answer –
by being present, by seeing life as a whole, and by letting love flow through you 🌺💖.
👉 Remember…
🌼 Love is not something you find.
🌼 Love is not something you possess.
🌼 Love is the awareness of Life flowing through you and others.
Let this truth awaken in your heart ❤️🌟.
🌻 #TrueLove #LifeIsLove #Chetasyog #MindfulAwareness #UnconditionalLove